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Whenever a man's partner brings up their desire to be tied up, this can be an exciting here we are at a person. However, it will also be an occasion for research. If he has never performed bondage before, and/or if his partner is new to it, there are lots of considerations both partners have to keep in mind in order to ensure the activity is safe, consensual and enjoyable. When men think about what they really want to keep a wholesome love life, they frequently target the basics: penis health, usage of protection and regular testing. As important as this stuff are, mental preparation is right up there together on the list. Consider the following when introducing physical restraint into playtime.
1) Talk first. Whenever a new sex is brought to partner sex, it's important for that partners to go over what they are comfortable with what is actually off limits beforehand, and sex diary is certainly no exception. This not just includes discussion of the actual tying up that'll be done, but of other areas of a couple's sex life also. Take into account that a partner who is bound is much more vulnerable than normal, and may not confident with some things they usually likes, including dirty talk or spanking.
2) Realize the total weight of responsibility. The partner who is untied has a high level of responsibility for that safety, balance and positioning with the bound partner. He must take this responsibility seriously. An advanced level of trust and care between partners makes this easier.
3) Don't start to large. You can find myriad approaches to tie someone up, some involving more restraint than these. Some positions make use of a great deal of rope (or any other material), contorting the partner's body into some pretty interesting positions. Each time a couple is beginning out, though, it's often best to not jump right into extreme positions such as the hogtie - using the partner's hands tied behind his / her back and feet bound - or perhaps the frogtie - when the knees are bent as well as the ankles will likely the thighs. Good quality restraint-for-beginner binding points include:
- Wrists: The wrists could be bound over a partner's head or behind their back; they can also be bound to furniture or any other sturdy objects inside the environment. Handcuff-style or arms spread apart and wrists bound separately tend to be alternatives to consider.
- Ankles: Some partners might would delight in having their ankles bound, either together or with legs spread apart and ankles bound separately to nearby sturdy objects.
- Thighs: The legs can be bound just across the knees, allowing a partner to bend his or her legs while facilitating the thigh squeeze that numerous couples love.
4) Temper the accessories. For a few couples, bondage accessories including whips, blindfolds and ball gags are as important to the thrill with the activity because the actual restraining. For newbies that are just getting their toes wet, it's likely best to skip extreme accessories like ball gags, which restrict a partner's capability to communicate verbally, and rough whips, which may deliver tougher blows than the partner expects or wants. A blindfold along with a feather teaser are usually safe places to begin - in the event the partner is interested in those things, of course.
5) Choose restraint material wisely. Utilizing a course rope one has lying around can lead to instant discomfort and chafing for any bound partner. Cotton and silk ropes are fantastic and opulent, however they are also expensive. Men can find nylon rope with a hardware store; this can be a suitable alternative, as knots therein are simple to remove and also the rope is soft enough to keep comfort. Some couples prefer to use strips of fabric, like a silky tie.
6) Restrain, don't stop circulation. Inside the heat of the moment, a guy may pull a knot a touch too tight. This may lead to loss in circulation with a lover's body part. Men will be able to slide a finger or two involving the restraint material and also the partner's body. Also, ask the partner if he or she experiences any numbness or pins and needles, and do frequent checks through the entire session to make certain there isn't any color changes about the restrained parts of the body. If any of those occur, unbind the partner.